To dream of abusing usually reflects your actual experience in real life.

To dream that you are abusing someone, warns that you will suffer unfortunate in your affairs.

To dream you are abused, portends you will be harassed by an enemy.

To dream that you hear abusive language, forewarns that you will become the target of someone's envy and jealousy.

Using abusive language in dreams warns that disagreements in your relationship is likely to happen in the future.